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The thesis of the post was great. But then:

> In fact, I don’t think I’ve cared about prestige since 2010

Yeah, right. We're all wired to seek prestige. If we don't get it we wither and sulk. He just figured out that he's unlikely to get it via traditional means, and decided to seek it via an alternative route. Perhaps there are extremely rare mentally atypical people who really don't care about prestige, but it almost certainly isn't you or me or the blogger. Be careful about the lies you tell yourself.



Not caring about prestige means cultivating your self-esteem and confronting your insecurities.

Learn to respect and admire yourself rather than relying on society to gratify your ego. It's a lifelong process not a state to achieve.


That last sentence of your post cuts both ways.


What makes you believe this?




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