It was pretty much complete luck, on both our sides.
Neither of us were looking for relationships, or sex, or whatever. We've never done any dating apps.
We met literally in the Starbucks line. Conversation started up, we both had time and sat down for coffee. It just went from there. We've been together for 10y.
Would it happen like that or similar again to either of us? Nope. Nor is it repeatable.
Still it gives me a tiny shred of hope and encourages me to just keep stepping outside even when I don't fully feel like it. If there's some chance encounter where I can find a great friend or even a partner, I don't want to squander it being stuck alone in the house if I can help it.
Neither of us were looking for relationships, or sex, or whatever. We've never done any dating apps.
We met literally in the Starbucks line. Conversation started up, we both had time and sat down for coffee. It just went from there. We've been together for 10y.
Would it happen like that or similar again to either of us? Nope. Nor is it repeatable.