i is not a "trick" or a conceit to shortcut certain calculations like, say, the small angle approximation. i is a number and this must be true because of the fundamental theorem of algebra. Disbelieving in the imaginary numbers is no different from disbelieving in negative numbers.
"Imaginary" is an unfortunate name which gives makes this misunderstanding intuitive.
However, what's true about what you and GP have suggested is that both i and -1 are used as units. Writing -10 or 10i is similar to writing 10kg (more clearly, 10 × i, 10 × -1, 10 × 1kg). Units are not normally numbers, but they are for certain dimensionless quantities like % (1/100) or moles (6.02214076 × 10^23) and i and -1. That is another wrinkle which is genuinely confusing.
i is a complex number, complex numbers are of the form real + i*real... Don't you see the recursive definition ? Same with 0 and 1 they are not numbers until you can actually define numbers, using 0 and 1
i*i=-1 makes perfect sense
This is one definition of i. Or you could geometrically say i is the orthogonal unit vector in the (real,real) plane where you define multiplication as multiplying length and adding angles
i is also a quaternion. So by this logic we could say complex numbers are made up of quaternions. But we don’t say such things because they wouldn’t be a good mental model of what we want to talk about.