well it's hard to formally define them, but it's not hard to say "imagine that all these decimals go on forever" and not worry about the technicalities.
An infinite decimal expansion isn't enough. It has to be an infinite expansion that does not contain a repeating pattern. Naively, this would require an infinite amount of information to specify a single real number in that manner, and so it's not obvious that this is a meaningful or well-founded concept at all.
What are you talking about? Infinite decimals give reals, do they not? Repeating decimals give rational which are a subset of the reals.
The colloquial phrase 'infinite decimal' is perfectly intelligible without reference to whether it's an infinite amount of data or rigorously defined or whatever else.
There's a lot of trickery involved din dealing with the reals formally but they're still easy to conceptualize intuitively.
I don't quite get what you mean here. While you need to allow infinite expansions without repeating patterns, you also need to expansions with these pattern to get all reals. Maybe the most difficult part is to explain why 0.(9) and 1 should be the same, though, while no such identification happens for repeating patterns that are not (9).
Imagine you have a ruler. You want to cut it exactly at 10 cm mark.
Maybe you were able to cut at 10.000, but if you go more precise you'll start seeing other digits, and they will not be repeating. You just picked a real number.
Also, my intuition for why almost all numbers are irrational: if you break a ruler at any random part, and then measure it, the probability is zero that as you look at the decimal digits they are all zero or have a repeating pattern. They will basically be random digits.
> Maybe you were able to cut at 10.000, but if you go more precise you'll start seeing other digits, and they will not be repeating. You just picked a real number.
A reasonably defensible inference would be that adding a finite amount of precision adds a finite number of additional digits. That is a physically realizable operation. There's no obvious physical meaning to the idea of repeating that operation infinitely many times, so this is not clearly a meaningful way of defining or constructing real numbers. If you were trying to use this construction to convince a skeptic that irrational real numbers exist, you would fail -- they would simply retort that arbitrary finite precision exists and that you have failed to demonstrate infinite non-repeating, non-terminating precision.